Ricky Martin Introduces Twin Sons Valentino and Matteo

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Born via surrogate in early August, Ricky Martin's 4-month-old twin boys, Valentino (left) and Matteo, make their debut in this week's issue of PEOPLE, on newsstands Friday. A joyful Ricky, 36, spoke candidly with PEOPLE at home in Puerto Rico about fatherhood.

Describe this time in your life.

I'm so happy! Everything they do, from smiling to crying, feels like a blessing. Being a father is amazing. This has been the most spiritual moment in my life.

Click 'More' to read about Ricky's desire to be a parent, his decision to seek the help of a surrogate and how he's juggled caring for twins!

How hands-on are you as a father?

I don't have a nanny. I'm doing this on my own because I don't want to miss a moment. I have a personal assistant who helps me, someone who takes care of me while I'm taking care of them, but I'm the one who changes the diapers, the one that feeds them, the one that bathes them, the one that puts them to sleep. For any parent, the first couple of months tend to get a little bit intense.

Why did you choose to become a parent via surrogate?

Adoption was one option, but it's complicated and can take a long time. Surrogacy was an intriguing and faster option. I thought, 'I'm going to jump into this with no fear.'

Tell us about Valetino's and Matteo's personalities.

Valentino loves to sleep. I call him Mr. Peace and Love because he's so chill and serene. Matteo is more alert and active. He was up at 3 a.m. the other night and just hanging!

What is your philosophy on raising your sons?

I read to them, I tell them stories, I play music for them so they develop their own personalities. I want to give them information and answer all their questions with honesty and truth. I believe it's very important to raise them with a lot of honesty and acceptance.

Source: PEOPLE

Check back Friday, when CBB will have more from the interview!

Published 12/10/08 by


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