'The Bachelor''s Stephanie Talks About Jason

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Stephanie Hogan got quite the sendoff on this week's "The Bachelor." Even though Jason Mesnick didn't present her with a rose, he told her, "I want to say this in front of everybody. You are the most amazing person I've ever met. And I think we are all better people because of meeting you. You're a beautiful person, outside and in. I'm so lucky to have met you."

And it wasn't just Jason who felt that way about the 34-year-old widow from Huntsville, AL. She won the hearts of both her competition and the audience at home.

"That was to my surprise," she tells ET. "I went into it just being myself. People had told me it was going to be tough being in the home with so many other girls. I didn't seem to think it was difficult at all. I love getting to know people and what makes them tick. I can appreciate the positive as well as the negative in people."

Despite the fact that she isn't the one who won Jason's heart, Stephanie still feels that their friendship will endure.

"I had such a bond with Jason," she continues. "I think that he is an incredible man. Even though we didn't have that physical connection, that chemistry, I still think our friendship will remain strong. Who knows? There are so many avenues we connect on, especially being single parents with kids the same age."

Since she has returned home, Stephanie says she is focusing on her four-year-old daughter Sophia and her career as a medical marketing representative, so she hasn't gotten back into the dating pool. That could leave the door open for her to be the next Bachelorette.

"First of all, I think it would be a few months until they asked me. Nobody has said anything about that. I would evaluate that and see where I am in my life. I hope to have some good fellows come out of this. I could be dating someone at that time and, if it was serious, I would want to honor his wishes and not do it. If I were single, I would probably do it."

"The Bachelor" is down to the final four: Jillian, 29, an interior designer from Peace River, Alberta, Canada; Melissa, 25, a sales representative from Dallas, TX; Molly, 24, a department store buyer from Grand Rapids, MI; and Naomi, 24, a flight attendant from Carlsbad, CA. So who is Stephanie rooting for?

"I think I am going to have to watch the hometown dates and see how he connects," she says. "I did say one thing to Jason: You do marry the family. He did ask for one piece of advice off camera. He was putting me in the limousine and he said, 'What is one piece of advice? I trust you and I value your opinion.' I said, 'Just remember you have your hometown dates coming up and you do marry into the family. Just see where you fit in in all of that.'"

"The Bachelor" airs Monday nights at 8 p.m. on ABC.

Published 2/5/09 by the Insider

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    Anonymous 3/12/09 Reply
  • We lovvve Stephanie. Stephanie is a true representation of a beautiful, wise, and loving woman. She always keeps the purest poise and class when she carries herself with the lovely Southern charm. I wish you the best of luck, Stephanie. You ARE our NEXT BACHELORETTE!
    Anonymous 2/26/09 Reply
  • I was hoping that Jason would be different, but he is starting to speak in cliches. He sent home Jillian for a very superficial reason...the basis of a good marriage starts with friendship. You can find passion in a one-night stand...a long-term marriage/relationship should start with a strong friendship...it certainly can help get you through hard times. You do not want to find yourself saying or hearing "I love you, but I do not like you." I do not think that he will be in a relationship with either of these girls much longer than Deanna stayed with pink shoe laces. Given the fact that children can see more clearly than many adults, Ty would have probably made a better choice than his dad. I hope Jillian is given the chance to be a Bachelorette...she would be a prize to any man who is mature enough to recognize her value.
    Anonymous 2/19/09 Reply
  • Stephanie was the most gracious lady I have ever seen on the Bachelor. She gave Jason some great advice.
    I would like to see her as the next Bachlorett, it would be a refreshing change.
    Anonymous 2/10/09 Reply
  • I think Stephanie's character came through. Too bad he didn't pick her but I am sure there is someone out there that will be her Mr. Wonderful.
    Anonymous 2/9/09 Reply
  • Please make Stephanie the next bachelorette. I want her to meet someone to complete her. I want her to find love. She is so awsome, and so down to earth. Please Stephanie the next Bachelorette. I was happy that you gave Jason the chance. So now give Stephanie the chance. Please Stephanie say you will do it. This time it will be your choice. As the Bachelorette your chance at love.
    Anonymous 2/7/09 Reply
  • I am so disappointed I thought for sure that Jason and Stephanie were the ones!!! I thought she was classy, and the kids would get along great. Personally if they can't be together I think that Jillian and Naomi are just wrong for him. There is just something weird about Jillian, and Naomi, I don't know she just seemed young even though she is 24. I have like Melissa from the start, after Stephanie, so we will see.
    Anonymous 2/6/09 Reply
  • Stephanie has touched the lifes of many. My husband would never watch this show with me. But when he overheard Stephanie he was front and center to the TV. He was upset that Steph was sent home. I was also, because I did think that made a perfect couple. Yet, I would love to see Steph come back as the bachorlette. WOW, she would be so sincere and it wold be awesome to watch an amazing love story end for her and Sophia. Go get em Steph
    Anonymous 2/6/09 Reply
  • OH MY GOODNES THE MOMENT I SOW STEPHANY I THOUGHT SHE IS GONNA END UP WITH JASON SHE LOOKS SO HONEST SHE IS SO GREAT I WISH HER THE BEST I DONT UNDERSTAND WHAT JASON IS LOOKING FOR THAT STEPHANY DOESNT HAVE REALY I MEAN CAMON
    Anonymous 2/5/09 Reply
  • She has world class style. I would love to know where she buys her clothes! I think Jason will call her back.
    Anonymous 2/5/09 Reply
  • I wanted Stephanie to be with Jason. I think they are both great people. Stephanie is the best lady to be on any of the shows. Maybe in another setting their friendship may have turned to love. I wish Stephanie all the best.
    Anonymous 2/5/09 Reply
  • Stephanie is great and deserves someone special. I wanted her and Jason together, but if they can just be friends that is great too. Some of these girls are not ready for a family and I hope he picks the right one.


    Scharlee
    Anonymous 2/5/09 Reply