Rihanna Secretly Talking To Chris Brown Going To Take Him Back? at The Insider

There are rumors that Rihanna is secretly communicaing with Chris Brown and seriously considering taking him back after he brutally attacked her on the night before the Grammys. TMZ leaked the shocking photo of a bloody and bruised RIhanna after the vicious attack. Chris Brown allegedly punched, choked and bit Rihanna. We don't see how this relationship is going to work. Chris Brown's career is a wrap because everyone knows he's a wife beater. Who wants to hear sexy love songs from someone who could give a superstar like Rihanna a horrible beatdown? Rihanna released the following statement to her fans about the assault.

“At the request of the authorities, Rihanna is not commenting about the incident involving Chris Brown. She wants to assure her fans that she remains strong, is doing well, and deeply appreciates the outpouring of support she has received during this difficult time.” source

Ne-Yo spoke about to MTV about the incident. He said RIhanna is fine but the leaked TMZ police photo broke his heart.

"I saw the picture," he said solemnly. "That just really — that hurt me to my heart, man. Again, I still don't know what happened, 'cause I haven't had the opportunity to talk to Chris yet. But to take it to that level really hurt my heart. All I can say is, I'm praying for both of them. They're both in my prayers. I haven't had a chance to talk to Chris yet. I just wanna sit down and talk to that dude and just explain if he doesn't understand: 'That's not something that's excusable, bruh. You have to get a little smarter about whatever it is going on in your relationship. You have to get a little smarter about how you handle certain situations.' " source

Chris Brown needs to come clean, admit that he attacked Rihanna and get intensive anger management treatment and help with his issues from his violent childhood with an abusive stepfather. Chris Brown should get real help from a professional who is not his preacher or his mama who exposed him to domestic violence.

Is Chris Brown violent? In an August 2007 interview with GIANT magazine, the young R&B star talks about witnessing domestic violence in his childhood home: Like the day an 11-year-old Brown made a promise to his mother. He vowed that he would go to jail by age 15 for killing his abusive stepfather. “I just want you to know that I love you,” he told her in GIANT. “But I’m gonna take a baseball bat one day while you at work, and I’m gonna kill him.” Brown’s parents had separated when he was seven. When his mother remarried, she moved her son and his new stepfather to a trailer park. Then his stepfather shot himself in the head. The shot went straight through the eyes. He survived the suicide attempt but was permanently blinded.

“When you’re blind, your senses are heightened, like your smell, hearing, your sense of touch,” Brown explains to GIANT. “You can move and maneuver around your sight. But he used to hit my mom…. He made me terrified all the time, terrified like I had to pee on myself. I remember one night he made her nose bleed. I was crying and thinking, ‘I’m just gonna go crazy on him one day…’ I hate him to this day.” source

Poor Rihanna is exhibiting wife beater syndrome and should get help for the psychological trauma caused by this attack. She needs to get a restraining order of protection against Chris Brown and continue with the legal process to document the attack. It would be helpful if Rihanna created or joined an organization which helps battered women because this is a serious issue which women of all ages have to deal with. We must also mention that Rihanna's career is going to go down if she gets back with Chris Brown. Wife beaters have a pattern of apologizing so they can have the opportunity to beat you again. EXTRA is reporting that Chris Brown is showering Rihanna with birthday gifts to get her to take him back.

The Full Cycle of Domestic Violence

A man abuses his partner. After he hits her, he experiences self-directed guilt. He says, "I'm sorry for hurting you." What he does not say is, "Because I might get caught." He then rationalizes his behavior by saying that his partner is having an affair with someone. He tells her "If you weren't such a worthless whore I wouldn't have to hit you." He then acts contrite, reassuring her that he will not hurt her again. He then fantasizes and reflects on past abuse and how he will hurt her again. He plans on telling her to go to the store to get some groceries. What he withholds from her is that she has a certain amount of time to do the shopping. When she is held up in traffic and is a few minutes late, he feels completely justified in assaulting her because "you're having an affair with the store clerk." He has just set her up. source

Rihanna is defying worried family and friends to talk to her remorseful lover Chris Brown and arrange super-secret meetings with him, The ENQUIRER has learned.

Shockingly, the talented pop singer has not only forgiven the R&B bad boy for punching her during a violent spat, sources say she's already taken him back!

"Even after what Chris did to her, Rihanna is crazy about him and she's forgiven him," a source close to the leggy beauty told The ENQUIRER.

"They've been talking on the phone, and they've agreed that once the legal problems are ironed out, they'll be together. But as far as Rihanna is concerned, she's already taken Chris back.
"They've missed one secret get-together, and now they've vowed to meet at a secret rendezvous location outside of Los Angeles."

An insider added: "Everyone is advising Rihanna to stay away from Chris and concentrate on her career. But she won't listen. She's been talking to Chris on the phone, and she's made it clear she doesn't want their romance to end.

"Both she and Chris are feeling extremely low. Each one feels the fight was their fault."

Barbados-born Rihanna, 21, who is famous for hits "SOS" and "Umbrella" - is down because she feels she started the argument by getting jealous, while Chris, 19, regrets losing control and flying into a rage, said the close source.

But when the leggy singer hinted that she'd reconciled with Chris, her family and celebrity pals flipped out, said the insider.

"They said, 'What are you doing? This guy hurt you,'" the source divulged.

He's due in court on March 5, and while Rihanna wants the law to go easy on him, the Los Angeles district attorney is said to be considering filing domestic battery charges. source