Of Course There’s A Sex Tape. I’d Expect Nothing Less.

I was really surprised when Chris Brown and Rihanna got back together after he aulted her.  I was not surprised by their fake break-up this week.  Now, Star Magazine is reporting that Chris and Rihanna made a sex tape that Brown is in possession of.  Of course.  This would explain why Rihanna had to stay with him post-abuse.  Not because she has no self-esteem.  It was all because she feared the tape, that I will go out on a limb and say doesn’t even exist, being released.

Let me be very clear.  I would personally host a screening of footage of me giving a to Carrot Top, and invite my grandparents, if my only alternative was being beat up by a man.  In conclusion, there is no .  They aren’t broken up.  Rihanna is working hard to hold onto her endorsement deals.

I find the whole thing disgusting.  And please-before we deal with a barrage of “You can’t judge, you don’t know what Rihanna’s going through,” comments, yes-actually, I do.  I am here to tell you that abuse with your mind.  It can make you question everything you ever thought you knew about yourself.  You can be one of those I Will Never Let A Man Hit Me women, and turn around one day to find that you are that woman-battered.  But guess what?  If you have the capacity to identify right from wrong, you must leave.  Find a way.  There are options even when it seems that there are none.  It’s so hard, feels so overwhelming.  It.  Still.  Must.  Be.  Done.

Thanks to Kevin!

Published 3/20/09 by
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  • LOL, OK U I JUST SAW THE ELLEN DEGENERES SHOW WITH DIDDY ON THERE TALKN ABOUT CHRIS BROWN AND RIHANNA INCIDENT . AND HE WAS TALKING ABOUT TWITTER AND SHE JUMPED IN AT THE END AND SAID OK WELL SINCE YOU LIKE CLEARING UP STUFF ON TWITTER , HOW ABOUT CLEARING UP SOMETHING FOR ME AND HE SAID OK. HE SEEMED MADDER AND MADDER AS MORE AND MORE OF THE QUESTION WAS COMING UP. I LOVE THE WAY HE PU , HE SAID WE NEED TO STOP CASTING STONES ON CHRIS AND RIHANNA BECAUSE NEITHER OF US KNOWS WHAT HAPPENED THAT NIGHT IN THAT CAR, HE SHOULDNT HIT HER AND SHE SHOULDNT HIT HIM, SO DIDDY IS CLEARIFYING THAT THEY BOTH HIT EACH OTHER. AND OBVIOUSLY THEY HAVE TOLD HIM WHAT HAPPENED AND BECAUSE CHRIS CANT REALLY COME OUT AND TELL US WHATS UP DIDDY CAME OUT AND TOLD HIS SIDE OF WHY HE LENDED THE HOUSE OUT AND GAVE A PIECE OF EVIDENCE THAT PEOPLE NEEDED TO KNOW AND HEAR. BECAUSE EVERYONE IS CASTING SO MANY STONES AGAINST CHRIS. AND HE RIGHT WE DONT KNOW WHAT HAPPENED AND PEOPLE SHOULDNT JUST JUMP OUT AND JUDGE CHRIS NOT KNOW WHAT HAPPENED. NO HE SHOULDNT HAVE HIT HER BUT AT THE SAMETIME SHE SHOULDNT HIT HIM. AND THEIR PRIVATE LIFE SHOULDNT BE JUDGED WITH THEIR CAREER AND ITS A SHAME IT IS. THEY ARE HUMAN JUST LIKE US AND THEY WILL MAKE MISTAKES. JUST PRAY FOR THEM. AND THOUGH EVERYONE IS SAYING YEA I UNDERSTAND WHEN SOMEONE HIT YOU AND YOU HIT THEM BACK BUT CHRIS WENT OVERBOARD, HOW DO WE KNOW HE WENT OVERBOARD, OK I SEE THE PICTURES BUT HOW YOU KNOW THEY HAVED BEEN ALTERED? AND EVEN MORE LOOK WHOS PUTTING ALL THE PICTURES AND POLICE REPORTS AND RUMORS AND LIES OUT , THE SAME WEBSITE IS DOING ALL OF THIS AND THE OTHERS ARE HEARING IT AND JUST POSTING IT BECAUSE THEY THINKING ITS TRUE, BUT COME TO FIND OUT THIS WEBSITE IS DOING ALOT OF LYING JUST TO HAVE SOME TYPE OF STORY CAUSE THEY REALLY DONT HAVE ONE AND NEITHER DOES THE OTHERS, SO BECAUSE THEY KNOW THAT THE 2 INVOLVED IN THE SITUATION IS BIG TIME CELEBS. THEY GOING TO GIVE THE PEOPLE WHAT THEY WANT TO HEAR A BUNCH OF BULL CRAP, AND ITS SICK AND I CANT BELIEVE THE SO CALLED 100% FANS JUST TURNING THEIR BACK ON HIM WITHOUT KNOWING THE FULL TRUTH. (TMZ) IS PUTTING OUT A BUNCH OF LIES AND RUMORS AND THEY PUT THEM OUT THEN NEXT THING YOU KNOW IT ISNT TRUE A DAY OR 2 LATER, IT COMES OUT TO NOT BE A TRUE STATEMENT. BUT GUESS WHAT WE ALREADY DONE JUDGED CHRIS EVEN MORE WHEN WE FIRST HEARD IT SO WE CANT TAKE IT BACK. STOP LISTENING TO TMZ IT IS FULL OF S**T. THEY HAVE NO TRUE EVIDENCE. YES I THINK THEY GOT HOLD OF HER PICTURE BUT DO I THINK THEY ALTERED IT YES I DO, CAUSE THEY HAD TO BACK UP WHAT THEY ALREADY HAD SAID SHE HAD CONTUSTIONS ON EACH SIDE OF HER FACE AND A BUSTED LIP, O YEA I THINK THEY ALTERED IT CAUSE THEY THE ONES STARTED THE RUMOR OF WHAT SUPPOSLY HAPPENED, THEY HAD TO BACK UP THAT RUMOR. AND NOW WE FINDING OUT THAT THE POLICE REPORT WAS LEAKED , HER STATEMENT, COME ONE NOW IF HERS WAS LEAKED WHY DIDNT THEY LEAK CHRIS STATEMENT, SO AGAIN WE HEARING ONE SIDE OF THE STORY, PEOPLE GE TOGETHER AND STOP LISTENING TO THIS CRAP. LIES LIES LIES. I BELIEVE THEY BOTH WERE FIGHTING EACH OTHER THE WHOLE TIME BUT CHRIS GOT THE BEST OF HER. CAUSE OF HIS BACKGROUND SELF DEFENSE. IT SEEMS TO ME RIHANNA STARTED SOMETHING SHE COULDNT FINISH. AND JUST LIKE DIDDY SAID (PEOPLE NEED TO BE HONEST WITH THEMSELVES, AND WHATS GOIN ON CAUSE SITUATIONS DONT GET BLOWN OUT UNTIL IT FINALLY GETS BAD,LIKE THIS ONE) SO IT SEEM TO ME THAT RIHANNA AND CHRIS ARE ALWAYS FIGHTING OR HAVE FOUGHT BEFORE BU WASNT AS BAD AS THIS ONE , BU SEEM THA GOING BOTH WAYS THEY ARE FIGHTING EACH OTHER. DO I REALLY THINK THAT CHRI HER FIRST WHEN THEY FIGHT (NO) , IM SORRY PEOPLE BUT I CANT BRING MYSELF TO SEE THAT. OR DIDDY SAYING THAT COULD MEAN THAT RIHANNA ALWAYS HITTING ON CHRIS AND NOW HE RESPONDED AND WHEN HE RESPONDED THIS IS WHAT HAPPENED. YOU ALL THINK ABOUT AND PRAY ABOUT AND WHY YOU ARE PRAYING ASK GOD FOR FORGIVENESS FOR JUDGING PEOPLE. CAUSE WHO ARE WE TO JUDGE SOMEONE LIKE WE ARE PERFECT COME ONE . AND LAST BUT NOT LEAST ELLEN IS GAY I USE TO BE GAY , AND IN LESBIAN RELATIONSHIPS THERE IS CONSTANT FIGHTING SO ELLEN NEED TO SHUT UP CAUSE IM SURE HER AND HER GIRL FIGH JUST HAVENT GOT OUT , AND IM SURE ELLEN HITS BACK IF SHE DONT SHE IS A FOOL. TO WOMEN CANNOT BE TOGETHER AND NOT FIGHT IM SORRY IT AINT GOING TO HAPPEN. YES RIHANNA IS A GIRL AND CHRIS IS THE BOY BUT RIHANNA SHOULDNT HAVE HIT HIM IM SORRY SHE STEPPED OUT OF CHARACTER AND GOT HER A** WHIPPED. SO BE IT . AND FOR THE RECORD YES CHRIS DID HAVE BRUISES , IF YOU READ WHAT THE DEPTY ON DUTY SAID HIS INJURIES WAS NOTHING COMPARED TO HERS. O WELL I GUESS NOT BECAUSE HE HAD TO TURN HIMSELF IN SO HE HAD THE OPPORTUNITY TO GO HOME AND CLEAN HIMSELF UP, MAYBE IF HE WOULD HAVE LEFT HIS SELF BLOODY HE WOULD HAVE LOOKED BAD TOO. AND IM SURE HE DID MORE DAMAGE THAT SHE DID TO HIM. RIHANNA DIDNT HAVE TIME TO GO GET CLEANED UP SO ALL THE BLOOD AND STUFF WAS STILL THERE. OF COURSE SHE GON LOOK WORSER. CHRIS AND RIHANNA GOT INTO A FIGHT , HE WAS TIRED OF HER HITTING HIM AND HE HIT HER BACK AND WHEN ALL WAS OVER HE SAW WHAT HE DID AND SOMETIMES THAT HAPPEN, WE GO OFF CAUSE WE GET SICK AND TIRED AND WE DONT REALIZE WHAT WE DID UNTIL AFTER ITS OVER, AND HE RAN WHEN HE REALIZED WHAT HE DID, HE GOT SCARED AND RAN. ITS OVER PEOPLE AND WE CANT CHANGE THE PAST WE CAN ASK FOR FORGIVENESS AND PRAY AND MOVE ON , IF HE COULD CHANGE WHAT HAPPENED IM SURE HE WOULD, BUT HE CANT HE CAN ONLY LEARN FROM IT AND MOVE ON. I COMMEND ALL THE CELEBS THAT GAVE POSITIVE ADVICE, AND EVEN OPRAH CAUSE OPRAH DIDNT ONLY SAY IF HE HIT YOU ONCE HE WILL DO IT AGAIN, SHE ALSO SAID OTHER THINGS THAT WAS HELPFUL TO BOTH SIDES, BUT OF COURSE THE MAIN FOCUS WAS "IF HE HIT YOU ONCE HE WILL DO IT AGAIN". THE MEDIA NEEDS TO STOP ENOUGH IS ENOUGH. THIS IS SICKENING THEY ARE MESSING UP THESE KIDS CAREER. AND ALSO FOR THE RECORD CHRIS SHOULD GET RECOGNIZED FOR ALL HIS HARD WORK AND SWEAT FOR HIS FANS, SO I DO BELIEVE HE SHOULD STILL BE IN THE NICKELODEON AWARDS BALLOT, BUT HE TOOK HIMSELF OUT AND IT WAS FOR HIS OWN REASONS. AND THATS FINE SO BE IT . GOD BLESS CHRIS AND RIHANNA. OOOOOOO ONE MORE THING FOR REAL THEN IM DONE , I SAW A COMMENT AND IT SAID THAT CHRIS IS WRONG BECAUSE AT A YOUNG AGE MEN ARE TAUGHT NOT TO HIT GIRLS/ WOMEN, YOU ARE RIGHT TO WHOEVER WROTE THAT BUT, ALSO AT A YOUNG AGE WE ARE ALL TAUGHT THAT IF SOMEONE HIT US , HIT THEM BACK. GOD BLESS, IM DONE.
    Anonymous 3/24/09 Reply
  • Keep Chris Brown On the Radio!

    Go to petition online and sign petition led: Keep Chris Brown On the Radio!

    Tell all your friends and lets get Chris back on the radio.
    Anonymous 3/22/09 Reply
  • There is a double standard going on here.

    WOMEN BEAT UP MEN TOO, WHERE IS THE OPRAH SPECIAL.

    Kelly Bensimon (a reality show star) beat up her boyfriend, where are the TV shows, PSA's and blogs about this?

    I just found this: Housewives of New York City' Star Kelly Bensimon Allegedly Beat Up Boyfriend


    ON FOX NEWS AND THE NY POST
    Anonymous 3/22/09 Reply