Ask B. Scott: Sexual Attraction

Question:

Hey B:
How do you know if you are truly over someone you are in love with? I’m currently in a relationship with a guy that I love a lot - he’s the sweetest guy, super nice, all my friends like him, and we get along as if we were the best of friends. However, when it comes to intimacy, it’s just not there for me. I mean don’t get me wrong, I can get off with him by him just being there, but for the most part I would rather take care of “business” myself. We haven’t had intercourse yet so we’ve just been messing around - not to mention I’ve slept around on him a couple times. The fact remains that I love him very much and he is an important part of my life.

Do you think I need someone who I have more sexual chemistry with so I’m not always looking elsewhere, and constantly flirting? Fyi, I work in a gay bar which makes resisting temptation that much hard.

Thanks,
Marcus

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