Queen Latifah: I was Sexually Abused

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Queen Latifah opens up in a new tell-all interview regarding her sexual abuse as a child.

Latifah said she was abused by a teenage boy who was put in charge of her. "He violated me," she tells Essence magazine. "I never told anybody; I just buried it as deeply as I could and kept people at an arm's distance. I never really let a person get too close to me. I could have been married years ago, but I had a commitment issue."

Latifah says she didn't tell anyone till the death of her brother when she was 22 years old. "I had to get it off my chest. My mother felt terrible. She was kind of a country girl, so she wasn't up on how slick people could be. When I told my dad, he said nothing," she tells the publication.

The Cover Girl says for many years she blamed herself for the sexual abuse she endured but after speaking with her therapist she came to terms with it. "I was a kid, and I had no power or control over the situation. I really wish I'd had the strength and the knowledge to say something sooner, because I always wondered, Did he do that to someone else? But I accept that the time for action has come and gone."

For more with Queen Latifah -- including her feelings regarding her sexuality and weight loss -- check out the latest issue of Essence magazine, on newsstands June 12.

Published 6/10/09 by the Insider

Comments (27)

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  • thats sad and am happy u go it out and told the world now u dont have to hold all dat pain in side of you
    Anonymous 11/23/09 Reply
  • wow! my situation is quit the same i just reasently told my story and its a relife but i have many promblems i have to fix before they get better
    Anonymous 11/13/09 Reply
  • my dad raped me
    Anonymous 11/10/09 Reply
  • I didn't say anything about my sexual abuse for many years. I was 6yrs. old when I was abused. Great courage for her to admit this! Hats off to her!
    Anonymous 10/30/09 Reply
  • that sick bitch]
    CharliceM 10/28/09 Reply
  • That is so horrible. It really hurts to have something like that done to you. She is strong for coming out, and telling peoeple about it.
    Anonymous 10/28/09 Reply
  • queen latifah is my idol...and its said to hear such a horrible thing happend to her...im sooo happy that she put all of it behind her and can live her life....Daniris
    Anonymous 9/5/09 Reply
  • Our son was arrested 2-8-09 for killing the man who sexually abused him and many, many others in our small community for decades, including his boy scouts, one he was a Big Brother to, his own step son and son. Please go to saveaaron.com for all the...
    Anonymous 6/30/09 Reply
  • For those of you with your nasty comments about her size, I noticed you didn't have the ______ to sign your names. All sexual attacks are about the control not the sex. So pretty much these guys don't have any _____ either. Sherry
    Anonymous 6/21/09 Reply
  • ppl cum'on show sum simpithee
    h3y dnt m8 fun of plz-size women
    fat's nt appropiate!!?!?
    hell-of-a-big-ass is
    i say bull 2 all of this
    Anonymous 6/18/09 Reply
  • Queen Latifah is my babe. I really admire her and I feel sorry such a thing happened to her when she was a child. I am happy she has put it behind her now.
    Anonymous 6/18/09 Reply
  • Lost time is never found again!
    Anonymous 6/17/09 Reply
  • The Insider turned me on!! :)

    I'm cumming unh...
    Anonymous 6/17/09 Reply
  • who would touch that ugly woman?
    Anonymous 6/14/09 Reply
    • you would!becauses,she is beautiful inside and out.
      Anonymous 6/29/09
    • shut the hell up...quit hatin cuz u not pretty...
      Anonymous 9/5/09
  • Yeah right, attention-craving bitch. Who would touch that obese thing?
    Anonymous 6/14/09 Reply
    • look you dumb ...if you really felt that way...den y in da hell would u be on this page...and if you got touched u wouldnt like it if any one said that your fack ass is liyin now would you...
      Anonymous 9/5/09