Ask B. Scott- Should I pursue a guy who only flirts with me if no one else is around?

Hey B.

What should I DO? Here’s the story.

Ok when I first started my job in Nov., there was a worker there that caught my eye. That’s all he did, I thought he was cute. I didn’t think anything else of it. As the months flew by I found the 2 of us doing a lot of flirting with each other. I remember his first comment towards me. He said “your hair looks nice, it looks good on you.” I was like thank you. Then he went on and on about his hair and how it grows and started talking about his facial hair and stuff. Another time he was bringing things from the store’s big warehouse into my department’s warehouse and he was like “hey wassup baby?” Of course I blushed and smiled. So during those times I was asking myself…”is he? is isn’t he?” Does he mess around? But I never got my answer. Shortly after that, we all found out a new store was opening and applied for it. He and I are now at the new store.

Since we’ve been at the new store, I’ve learned a little more about him. He has a girlfriend at home and a baby on the way. I see him more and have a lot more alone time with him. He’s been offering to treat me to lunch, wanting me to take my lunch with him, and gets upset if I took my lunch before him or if I’m about to leave. Then this one time I was going to the break room and he was coming from the warehouse with a dolly and he looked at the camera to see if it was on us (and it wasn’t) then he looked at me and blew me a kiss and smiled! I smiled, blushed and nodded at him. Then he went on to finish what he was doing. All that makes me wonder, is he flirting? Is he curious?

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