Jon Gosselin on Kids: Separation Still Hurts Them

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"Jon & Kate Plus 8" dad Jon Gosselin reveals in a new interview the reactions his kids are having to his separation from estranged wife Kate and also discloses how he tried to save their marriage.

"Even though they are young, it still hurts them," Jon tells In Touch Weekly. "They can’t figure it out. They’re like, 'Why aren’t they together? Why can’t you hug her?' The other day, Alexis said, 'I want you and Mommy to be home together.' And it hurts because it’s not going to happen -- and how do you explain that? I just let them know we love them no matter what. It’s hard. I feel like I failed them."

In June, Jon and Kate announced on their TLC reality show that they were separating, and later in the episode an onscreen graphic disclosed that legal proceedings to dissolve their marriage had begun. Jon tells In Touch he tried to keep his marriage together before deciding to part ways with his wife.

"Yes, I asked, 'What do I have to do to mend the relationship? What did I do wrong?' I was beating myself up about it," he tells the magazine. "So I read a lot of books about personalities, like The Five Love Languages. Throughout the marriage, I felt like my personality had changed a lot. In December, I went to therapy. I asked Kate to come, but she didn’t want to. She said, 'If you have a problem, go fix it.'"

Kate released a statement to ET in late June saying, "Over the weekend, Jon's activities have left me no choice but to file legal procedures in order to protect myself and our children."

A new season of "Jon & Kate Plus 8" is underway, airing on TLC on Monday nights. For the full exclusive interview with Jon Gosselin, check out this week’s issue of In Touch Weekly, on newsstands now.

Published 8/5/09 by the Insider

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  • nice pic of lexi
    Anonymous 9/8/09 Reply
  • does anyone consider the possibility that Kate got her tummy tuck, her body back in shape, and a new body guard to follow her around the U.S. to do her book deals. why would Kate need a body guard other than to have him guard her body? Hmmmm...
    NancyG11 8/12/09 Reply
  • Jon turns my stomach! His first priority is his children? Yeah right, his first priority is himself. Regardless of how "mean" Kate was it didnt give him the right to cheat. My God - he just had renewed wedding vows in front of his 8 kids. He should...
    RobertaK2 8/10/09 Reply
    • His first priority is his children? Yeah right, his first priority is himself.

      ^^^Um, yeah the kids were Kate's priority when she was doing her book tours and was away from the kids for weeks at a time (by her own admission in one of the 10,000...
      Anonymous 8/10/09
  • Jon, live your life buddy. You tried to tell your wife that something was wrong, but she didn't wanna hear it. I love it when women tell the guy to just fix it. And when he does, he's the devil....B*TCH!!
    Anonymous 8/6/09 Reply
  • I wish I could show Jon some sympathy, ummmm....nope, not gonna happen. And he should feel like a failure, take a look at how he's acted since the split....the trips , the girls, give me a break! Go home and collect yourself Jon, and be there for...
    Anonymous 8/6/09 Reply
  • Jon is a COWARD! Grow up buddy!
    KacyS2 8/5/09 Reply
  • jon sucks. i don't really care how much of a bully etc. everyone thinks kate is. when you have that many kids you have to be organized, on the ball, like a drill sergeant. he was like another child. he also likes to date young ones too. the way he...
    Anonymous 8/5/09 Reply
  • Then shut your pie hole & take care of business at home instead of acting like a high school boy who has to see how many chicks he can get before finding " the one". He is a poor excuse for a dad. Not much higher up on the food chain than a dead...
    Anonymous 8/5/09 Reply
  • blame kate she is the bitch
    Anonymous 8/5/09 Reply
  • Have we all forgotten what a shrew Kate was, buying something without a coupon sent her over the edge. My God how can anyone live with a person like that. I think he has done the right thing in telling her to get lost. She is a number one NUT case
    Anonymous 8/5/09 Reply
    • If you had 10 mouths to feed coupons would be very important to you too. With a family that size, if she was mild, meek and sweet what chaos do you think the family would be in then. I'm sure it takes alot of organization for 8 baths a night and...
      Anonymous 8/5/09
  • well i think that for some part Kate was a constant nagger..but i would be too if i had all these toddlers running around..but as for Jon he should feel guilty...his video of him and oh girl having a blast together is just crazy..he evern got his...
    Anonymous 8/5/09 Reply
    • yeah kate "sits at home". NOT! jon spent and still spends more time with the kids, because kate is a publicity whore and wants to teach people how to raise 8 kids her way. LAME!!
      JuliaJ2 8/5/09
  • Oh my
    NeverLetGo 8/5/09 Reply
  • No doubt they both had issues... but this smells a lot like him trying to deflect blame. He's the one that has been running around.
    Anonymous 8/5/09 Reply
  • i don't blame kate, jon will spend all the money on other women! it would be ok if it was just him but 8 children are involved! jon showed why kate had to worry so during their marriage on how he acted when divorce papers were filed. frances,...
    Anonymous 8/5/09 Reply