Tyler Perry Reveals Childhood Abuse

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In a highly personal blog post on his Web site, Tyler Perry reveals that 'Precious', the film he's producing with Oprah, is close to his heart because he grew up with sexual and physical abuse.

The 'Madea' creator says he was sexually assaulted by both men and women as a child, giving a detailed account about the mother of a childhood friend who locked him in her apartment. "I couldn't have been more than 10 years old," he writes.

He also tells of being beaten and verbally abused by his father, who he says would mock him for reading books and beat him for eating cookies. He also details an account of his father attempting to sexually abuse a childhood friend, a girl who lived across the street.

He says his father was a drunk who hit him often, without reason. One time, "he got the vacuum cleaner extension cord and trapped me in a room and beat me until the skin was coming off my back," Perry writes.

His father wasn't the only abusive man in his life, as Perry goes on to say another man sexually molested him. "I got a call not long ago from a friend," he says. "He told me that a man that I knew from church when I was a kid had died and he didn't have any insurance. His family was trying to reach out to me to see if I would pay for his funeral. I quickly said no, but I wish I would have said yes. There is something so powerful to me in burying the man that molested me. I wish I would have dug the grave myself."

Through it all, Perry says two things allowed him to survive -- his faith in God and his creativity. "I learned to use my gift," he says, "as it was my imagination that let me escape."

Published 10/6/09 by the Insider

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  • omg he seems poised who knew that he went through all of that i m shocked
    Anonymous 10/15/09 Reply
  • U GO MR. PERRY!I KNEW THERE WAS SOMETING SPECIAL ABOUT U SIR,I USED 2 ABUSE MY COUSIN WHEN WE BOTH WERE LITTLE GIRLS,NOT SEXUALLY ....I WOULD JUST BEAT YHE CRAP OUT OF HER LIKE SHE WAS MY LITTLE SISTER.AS AN ADULT,I HAVE SINCE ASKED HER FORGIVENESS4...
    Anonymous 10/9/09 Reply
  • its important to learn to forgive,because in doing that we ourselves are forgiven
    Anonymous 10/7/09 Reply
  • Any form of child abuse is Unacceptable!!! Sexual abuse of innocent children should REQUIRE LIFE SENTENCES in Jail!! God bless u my brother keep god 1st always. IRONMAN J.
    Anonymous 10/7/09 Reply
  • yikes!!! waoh, sorry for all the hell on earth u had to deal with man;
    Anonymous 10/7/09 Reply
  • i am glad that you did learn to forgive let go and let god you never know what a person is going through or been through
    Anonymous 10/7/09 Reply
  • whoa now that is a harsh life
    Anonymous 10/7/09 Reply
  • Now that was DEEP…wow…. You never know what people are going through or had been through. Very talented young man. Gotta Love Tyler. I’m a big fan of his.
    ToniaT3 10/7/09 Reply
  • Tyler...I love your movies. I believe that God has meaningful work for you to do while you are on earth. Work that will uplift, inspire, encourage others to be the kind of Christian man you are. We all endure trials and heartache to receive God's...
    Anonymous 10/7/09 Reply
  • God Will Pulled You Through Any,Sick,Devious,Warp Minded Situation With His Grace And Mercy.God Bless,
    Deacon Michael Sapp Cols,Ga.
    Anonymous 10/7/09 Reply
  • I feel so sorry for him.
    Anonymous 10/6/09 Reply
  • My Goodness What Is Going On In Some Peoples Minds To Do These Thigs :0
    conrissio 10/6/09 Reply
  • Dear Mr.Tyler Perry,
    I feel your pain being abused i am sorry!
    mrscullen01 10/6/09 Reply
  • I love you and all your movies!! They are real and all come down to one thing -- SIN and God's redeeming Grace! The world is infested with SIN but nothing that we cannot overcome through Christ. With God, ALL things are possible. Bless you my...
    Anonymous 10/6/09 Reply
  • Perry,
    You are a wonderful person and you can see how God is using you to good things in other people lives. I feel for you, when you spoke about growing up. Thank God you can speak about it, some people cannot and because of that they destroy...
    Anonymous 10/6/09 Reply