Who's to blame for the birthday girl's tears: Jon or Kate?

Copyright 2009 David Livingston Ethan Miller / Getty Images
Source: Mady Gosselin breaks into tears at birthday party.

A source tells "The Insider" that while most of the festivities were jovial, there were a few tears at the birthday party for Jon and Kate Gosselin's twins Mady and Cara.

We're told that little Mady became emotional at the end of the party, bursting into tears. She was allegedly upset that her father had to leave and go back to his hotel rather than stay at the house.

Jon and Kate have been feuding over previously arranged custody agreements regarding the twins birthday.

Now tell us: Who's to blame for the birthday girl's tears: Jon or Kate?

What side are you on? Give us your thoughts in the comments below and take our poll!

Published 10/9/09 by the Insider

Comments (1039)

  • orLogin
  • Why should any of us care? What good does it do for anyone except them and the media?
    Anonymous 10/23/09 Reply
  • Its the pressure that these kids have to go through everyday with their parents and their lives on tv for all to see. its time for them to fade away and take care of their children if they really care about them. Its obvious that Kate could care...
    Anonymous 10/19/09 Reply
  • Mady has always been a drama queen. She is the least likeable of the 8 kids. The tears were probably just for the sake of being the center of attention.
    Anonymous 10/19/09 Reply
  • My daughter popped onto this website and I am in shock at the fact that anyone would comment on this stupid situation at all. You all have way too much time on your hands find a charity and volunteer.
    Anonymous 10/15/09 Reply
  • well to tell u the truth its jons for takeing all that money and stoping the show
    Anonymous 10/14/09 Reply
  • KATE IS THE PROBLEM! Can't you people see that she is useing the children to get attention!!!!!
    EllenR6 10/14/09 Reply
  • Jon is to blame because he had a choice to either go n stay at the hotel which prolly held his gf or the next good choice is to ask kate to stay up in the house wit the kids n she go to tha other place of hers for his kids birthday but no he is so...
    Anonymous 10/14/09 Reply
  • BEAUTIFUL???? WOW. Never. Handsome, MAYBE. BEAUTIFUL NEVER. Get your eyes checked.
    Anonymous 10/13/09 Reply
    • Your back.. ay Hailey?
      Anonymous 10/14/09
  • John is a loser! Jon is a loser! Jon is a loser! Jon, READ THIS - YOU ARE A LOSER!! No matter what issues you might of had with your wife, you were a pretty lucky guy. You had a beautiful wife (so what if she was bossy, someone had to take charge...
    Anonymous 10/13/09 Reply
  • i hope that these two different individuals can come together and be friends. 10 years is alot of days to throw away. I guess we all saw hope in this couple and their beautifiul children. I think the children should not be on t.v.. It must be hard...
    Anonymous 10/13/09 Reply
  • jon absolutely. jon stop using mady, she has problems and you are going to make her a mess. shes not 49 . stop ET/insider you need to stop also.
    Anonymous 10/13/09 Reply
    • WHY DO YOU PICK ON JON? WE ALL HAVE OUR UPS AND DOWNS. LEAVE THE POOR GUY ALONE!
      Anonymous 10/13/09
    • Jon using Mady? more like Khate using Mady. Mady doesn't like Khate. (watch the shows) she loves her dad. Just wait she'll tell us all somday the TRUTH about Khate. I can't wait til they turn 18. Books galore!
      Anonymous 10/13/09
  • I believe John is to blame,he gave up on doing what's right by his vows or his children,and chose to move on with a young one instead of putting more effort into counseling or such. He's a chronic liar and that was proven by the money issue that the...
    Anonymous 10/13/09 Reply
  • I think both are to blame. Seriously! I don't condone Jon's affairs, I think he should have asked for the divorce first. On that note, I ask did anyone watch that show! I understand how things are on altered on the editing room floor but OMG Kate...
    Anonymous 10/13/09 Reply
  • Jon is the blame for it ,he actualy started all of this by cheating on Kate.And left her with 8 kids alone at home ,
    LindaT19 10/13/09 Reply
    • Hello!?! KATE demanded the divorce
      Anonymous 10/16/09
  • i think kate is to blame for the girls tears . it is there day to shine not you kate let your kids be happy..you always say iam doing this for them so get off your high hores and show it
    Anonymous 10/13/09 Reply
    • WHY DO YOU USE SUCH FOUL LANGUAGE?
      WHAT WOULD YOU DO IF YOU WERE IN HER SHOES?
      Anonymous 10/13/09
    • I'd take OUR children OFF the fing tv!!! What? Isn't that an option? She's already tasted riches and she likey ALOT!! She is a PIMP!!
      Anonymous 10/13/09