Kate Gosselin: I've Been 'Targeted and Torn Apart'

On Wednesday's "Ellen DeGeneres Show," Kate Gosselin opens up about feeling under fire, fretting the prospect of dating, and explaining her and Jon's pending divorce to their eight children.

Asked why she thinks the public is fascinated with her family, Kate says: “Well, I think certain events take place that makes us sitting ducks. That makes us easy targets. Certain ones of us speak a lot; others of us prefer to keep our mouths shut.”

"So you think that doesn't help if someone is talking about it?" Ellen asks.

“I just know that on TV or off TV," Kate says, "and I've been very much targeted, torn apart."

Ellen later wonders if the spotlight that the family receives makes Kate worried about the prospect of getting involved in a new relationship.

“I am. I'm not thinking about it, but the thought has crossed my mind [that] at some point it's going to be scrutinized,” Kate says.

The TV mom also talks about explaining to her kids why she'd remove her wedding ring.

“I was wearing it. At some point, I talked to the kids -- it came up very naturally -- and I said, ‘I'm not going to be wearing this ring very much longer.’ [They said,] ‘Oh, why?’ I said, ‘Because I'm not going to be married to Daddy anymore,’ which of course hearing that I don't think was fun for them," Kate says.

Published 10/27/09 by the Insider

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  • I'm not a fan of either Jon or Kate but I have to laugh at a comment a Kate fan made. The few Jon fans are on here all the time. Looking from here to way back...the same applies to a Kate or Kate fans. The hypocracy on both sides is amazing. I hope that it's kids and not reasonable mature adults calling the kettle black.
    Anonymous 10/30/09 Reply
    • Hypocrisy...I'll change my typo before the fans from one side or the other can jump on me for a typo. Some of these people have too much free time. You can tell when they're on here to make fun of typos.
      Anonymous 10/30/09
  • Jon's, I sorry, comes way to late, were all onto him, and his way of using people to get what he wants, His lie after lies. Go away jon, and let Kate and the kids have a life, with peace.
    Anonymous 10/29/09 Reply
  • Kate, you know that you brother and sister-law have given their approval to Jon pimping out the kids at the fence for $$$$$,Obviously TLC had a safety net around you and your kids. BUT Jon seems to be putting them into harms way just to make $$. That`s abusive
    Anonymous 10/29/09 Reply
  • It appears there are only two kate haters out there, one calls her khate and the other says ummmm an awful lot.....lol too fricken funny
    Anonymous 10/29/09 Reply
    • i noticed this yesterday that there weren't very many jon supporters only a looooot of free time for them cuz they were soooo evil with their comments! mental they r!
      Anonymous 10/29/09
  • SO TIRED OF SEEING HER ON EVERY STATION EVERYDAY, GET LOST ALREADY. SHE BELITTLED JON ON LIVE TV AND CORECTED HIS PRONUNCIATION OF EVERY WORD. SHES SCUM. TIRED OF HER TALES OF WOE.
    Anonymous 10/29/09 Reply
  • Why does anyone really care what the f*** she has to say enough with her and those kids she is not a good mother and she sucks as a wife who in there right mind would want to date her she is the same sign as hitler
    Anonymous 10/29/09 Reply
    • wth? omg!this woman talking about hitler? she comparing kate to hitler? im sure there r plenty of jewish pple out there who will not agree! OMG that is so offensive to the jewish pple since hitler was like an antichrist!
      Anonymous 10/29/09
  • kate, if john cams back and hi ses I am sorry ,at some take him back???????
    Anonymous 10/29/09 Reply
    • Eww, no.
      Anonymous 10/29/09
  • Kate claims she was quiet during all the time in the interviews but She Had The Money which she got extra for the children that she kept for her self, besides being the constant complainer during the series that she did which was locked in the taping of the show constantly disproving her claims.
    Anonymous 10/29/09 Reply
  • YOU GO KATE................YOUR GREAT
    Anonymous 10/29/09 Reply
  • To Ms. Pee Wee Martini-You know who you are. The UMMMER!!!!! You are a very sick ugly person.
    Anonymous 10/29/09 Reply
    • LMFAO UMMMMMMMMMMMMM
      Anonymous 10/29/09
    • I don't understand why that bothers you....if you're a Kate fans and hang on her every word....UMMMMM's....shouldn't make a difference.
      Anonymous 10/29/09
    • It wasn't the ummmmm idiot it was everything else you were saying about Kate but since I don't know your name I made one up,
      Anonymous 10/29/09
    • Goodle Pee Wee Martini...I'm sure she looks just like you. UGLY
      Anonymous 10/29/09
  • Come on now. Why is it we ga ga over the actresses who are out there, away from their children, using nannies, enjoying their careers, but Kate cannot go out there and earn a living in the public eye, and she is not even get paid a fraction of these so called "stars" that we love to follow. John put a stop to her working with her children. The children seem pretty happy and enjoyed what they did and they did it at home, with their mom. He needed a swift kick everyday to get into gear, and he just couldn't life, so now why not just end it all and go do your own thing and blame your wife for your choices. Is this country filled with stupid people or what. She is making a living the way she wants. This is America guys, and if someone scrutinized everything you did everyday and told you how wrong you are in the way you raised your kids, you would all put them right in their place, be it your mother-in-law, friends or neighbors, so what gives you all the right to condemn her for making a living. Think about all those actresses you pay good money to see their films, their TV shows, etc. and most of them have children. She is not raising them in the ghetto, she is making a life for herself - Jon's choice - and he is such a loser and irresponsible. He needed a kick way back when he was a kid, and someone who taught him the responsibilites of a family and a marriage and the promises he made to love and cherish until death do them part. And his poor poor girlfriend, who is just oh so upset by the scrutiny she receives. Give me a break honey. Don't let the door hit you on the way out. Leave Kate alone. She loves those kids and knows how to love them, care for them and make a life for herself and them. Jon, go back to teeny bopperville and enjoy your frolicking because you have no choice in life. You are just not that ambitious and life will give you what you put into it. Like they say, garbage in, garbage out - and you know all about garbage now don't you!
    Anonymous 10/29/09 Reply
    • These actresses aren't horrible narcissistic mothers. Big Big difference.
      Anonymous 10/29/09
    • Kate MOMster Dearest GROSS-lin UMMMMM
      Anonymous 10/29/09
  • she's getting an 8 diamond ring with a mother of pearl in the center of it. really? how about the kids drawing the entire family? why does it have to be an expensive ring?
    Anonymous 10/29/09 Reply
    • Does anyone tell you how you can spend your money?
      Anonymous 10/29/09
    • Maybe if Kate does not like people commenting on her life, she should refrain from attention-seeking behaviors.
      Anonymous 10/29/09
  • USMagazine awhile back had a pic slide show of hated celebrity moms and Kate was at the front before Dina Lohan and Courtney Love and Huld Hogans wife. LMAO
    Anonymous 10/28/09 Reply
  • Jon may in your terms be a scumbag.....but narcissistic mentally ill Kate is far from a good mom. And she's all LOWER CLASS.
    Anonymous 10/28/09 Reply
  • Cool:)
    NeverLetGo 10/28/09 Reply