Nicole Kidman Lost Identity When Married to Tom Cruise

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Nicole Kidman reportedly revealed that she had lost her identity during her marriage to Tom Cruise because they moved around so often. She doesn't want to make the same mistake with Keith Urban. She said:

"Tom and I, we moved and moved and moved. Your sense of where do I come from becomes less and less relevant. A lot of my life, particularly when I was working so much, it was about trying to fill in the gaps. Now there's much more reason to exist in the world without my identity needing to be through work. I have a new niece, I have a new marriage, we just bought an acreage in Tennessee, which we're really happy to build a house on and spend some time doing that. I'm just not willing to give up my life with my man anymore."

It's great that she is determined to make her marriage work, but doesn't it seem like she mention her ex-husband a lot? It sounds like he had quite an impact on her. I guess Tom Cruise has that power eh?

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Published 11/10/07 by

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Comments (8)

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  • Yeah I am in agreement Tom is a pathetic little man who lets his religion rule who he is suppose to be, but if your too busy trying to be what they want you to be then who is the real you Tom, that I think would interesting. I love Nicole and have...
    Anonymous 11/15/07 Reply
  • She was so smart to leave the "gay elf"..LOL.. i love that... but really, anyone would need major therapy after living with tom,"i need to control everyone and everything, because i'm a small nobody"...Now maybe she can have a happy life..
    grandmapatty 11/10/07 Reply
  • personally? she's too good for either one of them. I mean when your choices are a gay elf and a cowboy? come on.
    Abracadavid 11/10/07 Reply
  • she is so much better off without him.
    PlutoniumNick 11/10/07 Reply
  • those two guys could not be more different from each other
    qweenofstarz 11/10/07 Reply
  • honestly, I think after being married to tom cruise anyone would need a lot of therapy.
    DusknDawn00 11/10/07 Reply
  • he seems to be doing the same thing to katie too
    Alysster196 11/10/07 Reply
  • I am having a lot of trouble imagining Nicole Kidman happy on an acre of land in Tennessee.
    EvaDrummer9 11/10/07 Reply