Paula Abdul Says Good-Bye to Another Man

“Friends of the ‘American Idol’ judge claim she has separated from restaurateur JT Torregiani, after less than a year together.

However, JT is not upset about the break-up because he wasn’t committed to Paula. A source said: “He wasn’t that serious about it and hadn’t invested too much in the relationship.”

Paula, 45, sparked rumors her romance might be on the rocks when she failed to show at the opening of JT’s new restaurant Beso, which he has launched with ‘Desperate Housewives’ star Eva Longoria, in March. At the bash, JT was spotted flirting with female guests.

Paula recently spoke about her desire to settle down and start a family. She said: “I do want children. I’ll probably adopt because I think it’ll be in the next three to five years. I wouldn’t necessarily adopt from abroad like some celebs. I just want a healthy baby.”

Okay let’s step back and address a few issues with this. Who cares how J.T. is feeling? Obviously, he was somewhat invested since he lived with the woman for God’s sake and I don’t even think anyone is too concerned about Paula seeing as how they broke up in April and it has taken this long to get to most front pages. I think she just needs to take some time to herself. I mean, there was only a two-year break from her first marriage to her second and now she’s moving in with people shortly after starting to date them. Paula is definitely trying for the fast track to that happy life she wants but I think she needs to slow down a bit as that option does not seem to be working for her. However, I must say that I’m glad that some celebrities do notice the needs of children in America and are happy to look into adopting them.

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