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Should Rihanna ever take back Chris Brown if he promises to change?
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Are you kidding me?!?! NO!!! He'll never change!!! She is MUCH better off without him!50%
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They do love each other, so maybe after some serious therapy for him they can work on being together again!50%
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Maybe she should chat with Tina Turner for one and understand that abusers continue to abuse. He will hurt her again if they are back together,and probably worse. Of course women in her situation do tend to go back don't they.
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once a woman beater always a woman beater
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If this is the first time he has ever touched her in anger it might work if he DOES take anger management. If this is NOT the first time he has touched her in anger I doubt very much if he will change, no matter what kind of management he enlists in. Rihanna will soon realize how much better off she is without him. Their brains are not through developing into maturity at their age; he is still a teen-ager for goodness sake! He has too much rage and can't seem to be able to control it, if he even wants to. Some men and young boys think it is their privilege to beat up on their so-called loved ones. They are just plain and simple woman abusers and they love doing it; gives them the feel of power. After all is said and done the apologies are too late to mean anything. Physical and/or verbal abuse can't just be wiped out with a few words. The hurt is still there and remembered! Rihanna tell him to get lost and out of your life, you don't need him or what he has to offer.
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If this is the very first time he has ever touched her in anger it might work if he DOES enroll in anger management. If this is NOT the first time he has ever toughed her in anger I doubt very much if he will change. He has too much anger and rage. Their brains are not fully developed and are still in the process of maturing. He is still a teen-ager for goodness sake. Some men and young boys seem to think it is their privilege to abuse their loved ones, they like to feel the power that comes with the abuse. Apologetic words after the fact is too late. The physical and verbal hurt is still felt and not easy to forget. Rihanna, you don't need this kind of companion. Tell him to get lost and out of your life. You are still young also, and there are many good young MEN out there that know how to treat a lady. You may say he loves you and you love him but this kind of hurtful love is no good. Ask Tina Turner! Have you not heard her life story? If you do go accept him back in your life I am afraid you will experience some more of the same. Girl do what you know to be the right thing. You are smart enough to figure it out.
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you know what people you are right no her parents did not bring her into this world for no one to beat her but his parents also didnt either, and with all the junk thats being spoken about him yall need to learn to read between the lines cause some of this mess is lies, if chris beat her then why is it that he is only being charged with crimial death threats, instead of assult and battery charges, come one now people something aint right about all this , yes i believe she hit him first and then he hit her possibly 2 times at the most but when he jumped out the car and left her she could have done more to herself women do it everyday, and 2nd where was his bodyguards that were following him at the at the gas station? when all this happened, something not right about this story people! 3rd if he hit her before why was it that on mtv.com and mtv news they said that her fam said they were shocked about it when they heard it because he was a sweet innocent boy and he didnt seem like he would hit a woman or their daughter in that matter, and he loved her and always look out for her best intrest, go read it on mtv.com. again something dont sound right, cause on another site they said her fam & friends said they seen mysterious marks on her before.3rd rihanna sales are really goin up now do yall think for one min that this maybe a publicity stunt? people get ur heads together this gurl rihanna is evil and you can tell it and a tv host said he would never have her on his show again because of her attitude problem, and this was before all this even happened she is not innocent sorry, ok and 4th why forgive him if he did all that to u in those pics, and he hit you before come on there got to be a breaking point for you to gain some sense and not go back to him, she is lying. something not right again she is going back to him because she knows that she played a big part in what happened in that car that night. 5th he did not apologize to her directly do you think he may feel that he dont owe her one, maybe because the accuzations that she hit him first are maybe true, so he probably feel that he dont owe her one cause if she wouldnt have hit him he prob. wouldnt have hit her. 6th an this the good one, on yahoo on chris brown cuzin page its says" my cousin was shocked when he saw rihanna picture that was exposed to to public from the police dept., he wasnt so much as shocked from it being leaked he was shocked because of the injuries". now that says alot if you read between the lines, maybe chris didnt do all that damage, do i detect another linn whitfield from "thin line between love and hate" come on people, read all these website posting and start comparing before you just bash him, i think they both were wrong and if he gets in trouble so should she, this girl is not innocent and she darn sure aint no victim. i and pray that if she is tryn to mess up his career cause he dont want her then i pray that God will deal with her. 7th, im tryn to skool yall cause some of you too dumb to know that most of this is lies and rumors, aite back to 7th why is it that they tryng to change his court date cause they dont have any evidence, should her face be enuff evidence to pursue the case? come on come on come on lies, rumors, drama, lies, rumors, drama people, people, people get your heads toggether and stop judging and bashing before you know the truth. and last 8th if God can forgive us for things we done, why cant we forgive chris? and whoever else in that matter. no man should hit a woman and no woman should hit a man its vice versa so i cant get with what she did. And i been through it watching my parents and myself personally in a prev. relationship and i still cant bash chris i cant bring myself to do it cause i dont think he guilty in this situation and i still love him and just went out and brought 8 cd's to give the kids in my youth program cause we had a discussion about this and they feel the sameway i do they dont think he's all to blame. America i love you all, and these website need to stop and let them handle it cause they making things worse. God Bless!!!
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She shouldn't go back to him unless she likes being beat up...and having the real possibility of being killing hanging over her every minute...Women who go back to beaters are just crazy and need major help!! Once a beater always a beater!!
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the love make evry thing gays
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the love make evry thing gays
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been there they say they will change but they don't
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My mother was in an abusive relationship for years. So i don't think an abuser will ever change. I think she is better off without him. It will hurt for awhile but she will be better in the long run.
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coz man should not hit a women so chris be gd man
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Please tell me she has more since than the average Moron who is stupid enough to stay with some one who obviusly only wants a punching bag he can sleep with,,,Come on girl,,,You are much to pretty to let some ugly,,Yes I said UGLY,Moronic,Masochistic,,,Clod that has no respect for you or any other young lady,,,,Use what the good lord gave you (Your Brain)And get the HECK away from that Pr*ck,,,!!!!!
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i think they are made for each other.
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I think Rihanna is much better without Chris. No Woman should never be hit by a man at all. What was Chris thinking?
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i think she should give him another chance because im not gone to believe nothing until the facts come out.what cause you are famous that makes you perfect........NOT everybody makes mistakes its life we are all human
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its hard 2 make a call. we do not know the whole situation. this is up 2 only chris&rihanna.
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He probably will not change unless he gets a new nature, which is only possible by receiving Jesus Christ as his Lord and Saviour.
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I know how it is to be hit by a man, I wa once before, I know he make a serious mistake, but I believe that he will change, she need to give him another chance, but before she do, put her rules down, that there would be no more hitting at at any time. A man need to handle rejection and a woman that pop off with the mouth, we will do that no matter what, and if he love us like he say he will never raise a hand, he wouldn't even want to see us cry. I am a Barbadian native woman just like Rihanna, make the choice that make u happy, Girl.
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People really need to get a life, gossip websites and magazines are made for naive easily swayed people like most of the people on here.
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At NO point in this 3 weeks did Rihanna or Chris make an official statement saying:
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1. Chris beat up Rihanna
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2. Rihanna slept around and gave Chris an STD
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3. Rihanna is taking Chris back
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4. Rihanna is pregnant.
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THEIR FANS AND THE MEDIA HAVE NO IDEA WHAT REALLY HAPPENED AND WHAT IS HAPPENING RIGHT NOW. Maybe they have been talking to each other and are getting back together or maybe not. THIS IS ALL SPECULATION, GOSSIP AND ALLEGATIONS.
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We are in a recession for God's sake, people are losing their homes and people are starving and dying around the world but the media are making a fortune off Chris Brown's problems. HE IS NOT A MONSTER WHO GOES AROUND BEATING UP WOMEN. Michael Jackson messed around with kids, R Kelly messed with some teenage girl, numerous rappers and singers beat their wives, even Jay Z was accused of attacking a woman so he has nothing to say to Chris.
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PEOPLE YOU NEED TO GO AND GET A JOB OR GET A NEW HOBBY AND STOP MAKING UP STORIES AND BELIEVING EVERYTHING YOU READ. -
Chris shouldn't go back with her... Rihanna should move on, after all Chris has his own career to worry about.
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None of us really know what happened and I know I'll probably get blasted for that but we we weren't there...there's to many scenarios or "what if's" that could have led to the alleged attack. Don't get me wrong, violence is NEVER the answer, no matter what sex, color or nationality you are. It's a private situation that's really none of our business but whatever happened I hope they find peace and happiness either together or separated. Whatever works for them.
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dont take he bk coz his my looooool
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he will never change and she must remember whar he has done to her, woman beating it's the most teerible what man can do
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he will never change and she must remember whar he has done to her, woman beating it's the most teerible what man can do
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no waaaaaaaay!
i think cb is much better than rihanna & i think they shouldn't back 2 each other
& if rihanna want him back i don't think cb want her anymore!
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i wil say those who need to be forgiven should be forgiven. Rihanna who i love so much i know will forgive chris. it is actually a hard thing to forget or forgive such a thing. i'll love for rihanna to forgive chris and take him back so that he should learn that what he really did was so wrong that he will not imagin his life without rihanna . i love their combination. and love is not something easy. if they pass through this together, i believe they,ll go through so much stronger obstacles than this. all i wish rihanna would do is forgive and forget instead of leaving him and going to someone else and get into another love obstacle and run away and u know what she'll date nearly every guy before settling down and her past'll hunt her later on .
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for me, it is a matter of a forgiving mind and i know rihanna will forgive chris.this is a time in a relationship that they have to forgive each other. if she doesn't forgive him and does leave him, she'll and up getting another guy and leave him when trouble comes again she will eventually leave again. In life all you should do to go through a situation is to face it with faith and hope. everyone should learn to face reality and u'll find a change. so i sudgest rihanna goes back to chris, forgive him and take him back, so that he sees that if he doesn't have rihanna he will have no one else to hold to
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if I were Rihanna, she should reconsider her realtionship with chris Brown.
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she shouldnt go back 2 him..I was a abuse . They always say sorry everytime they hit you, She needs to get away from him. it will happen again.
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if ...they both!... truly love each other, why not?... do what it takes to get it back together...to both of you: "no more hitting"!
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Are you kidding me???? I hope he goes to jail for a long time...see more
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But it doesn't mean that people should become ur pounching bag,Please!!
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5o 5o ;)
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Hitting my man chris brown are you silly or someting?
Wow if i ever saw you on road you would get it!
Without all this money clothes make up, seriously rihanna lovers what would she be? NOTHINGGG.
She shouldnt even be classed as a stupid celebrity, she cant sing, yeah shes pretty, but shes nothing special, compare her too beyonce! its a joke to be honest, because of all these famous people, were going through credit crunch, that goes to every celebrity except chris maurice brown, caus ei love him hes my hubby, dont worry babe sill always be your fan until the day i die, if your still doing music that long ha! IF you go down i will cry, but do a campaign to make sure you get out, which i know wont work but its better than nothing, Ive already got a campaign against rihanna on bebo.com, take a look everyone! And i know chris probly wouldnt agree but i just dont like her, Not cause shes with cb or anything, well it is a bit but i didnt like he rmusic from the word go, she cant sing. full stop! -
If she loves him and truly feels it's in her best interests.No one can make her life.Everyone has an opinion.Telling her what they think she should do.Well,it is her life.More power to them if they can withstand all of this scrutiny and overcome the incident.I truly hope that they do make it to show everyone up!
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rihanna is not innocent rihanna is trying to mess him uo..even though i am a fan of her i think she caused the scene and is tellin lies. rihanna go and confess ur sins
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Shut the up dang he a lover and i really don't want them together
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BROWN AND RIHHANA DONT LOVE EACH OTHER BECAUSE IF THEY DID , THIS INCIDENT WOULDNT HEAVE BEEN. HOW CAN YOU ABUSE SOMETHING THAT YOU LOVE. NEVER ! THEY DONT .
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Some may say that it is stupidity but you can never dictate a heart that has been blinded by love...If they really love each other then they can fix things and start over peacefully
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Some may say that it is stupidity but you can never dictate a heart that has been blinded by love...If they really love each other then they can fix things and start over peacefully
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A LESSON WORTH LEARNING FROM....HOPEFULLY IT WOULD NEVER HAPPEN AGAIN!!
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cris brown is a dum ass dont get back with him
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they do look cute togther and I'm sure it was just a mistake I mean everyone makes mistakes look at ti he made the bigs mistake that almost ruin his career because he almost
went thimo jail for 30years so give -
the man can change if he wants to change, there is hope.
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if they do love each other who are we to get up in their grill. some people do not know the meaning of love we say we love each other but do we mean it. do we really know what love is all about until we learn what love is we will never be happy in live with our spouses. love comes from god we serves when we start with the holy spirit then we will known love. God is love some people may think i am talking fool but through exprience i know i was in a busive relationship before so i know. God is the only one who truely loves you and is your friend i don't know what happened to these two individuals because i was not there to say so if we did not see or hear it for ourselves. is her words aganist his. rumors get around of you say and i say and its not true. people lives are destroyed by gossip stop the gossiping and get the facts before damaging someone life
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and forget getting him therapy. She needs therapy so she never stays around for this to happen again by another person, and be able to recognize the warning signs. He is a done deal
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i love chris brown allo
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If the to were not rich&famous,we would not care, as we dn't care now of all the ladys that are being beat as we speak an men that are being beat by women,so lets get over it an move on an teach our sons and dauthters to keep thier hands to them self.
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da shoul cause da luv eachother
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i think that chris brown and rihannah still belong with eachother because i was in this relationship for a long time we still do love eachother and its hard, but we get throw it
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THEY LOVE EACHOTHER AND THATS THAT AND PEOPLE SHOULD LEAVE THEM ALONE AND LET THINGS WORK OUT FOR THEM SELVES AND THE MEDIA SHOULD STOP SPRAYING RUMORS AND GET A LIFE
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THEY LOVE EACHOTHER AND THATS THAT AND PEOPLE SHOULD LEAVE THEM ALONE AND LET THINGS WORK OUT FOR THEM SELVES AND THE MEDIA SHOULD STOP SPRAYING RUMORS AND GET A LIFE
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I just think she probably said something to him that made him mad. I don't think a guy hits a girl just for the f..k of it.
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rhianna is a #$%&*@ that does not deserve chris so she could take restraining order and shove it
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i dont know y chris is waisting his time he could get any girl he wants so idont no y rhiannas bein such a b@$%) he aint need her he has me and he loves me the same way i love him dont worry chrissy boo im here 4 you and ill alwayz be here
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She is a role model to fans all over the world. Going back to Chris Brown is telling women to stay in an abusive relationship. The "I can change him" attitude is wrong. You can't get men to change. And why try? Why would someone WANT to be with someone who hit them?
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I DON'T WANT THEM TO GO BACK TOGETHER CAUSE CHRIS CAN DO BETTER THAN THAT. EVER SINCE THEY WERE FIRST DATEING I KNOW SHE WOULD RECK HIS LIFE.
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she is much better off without him
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yes sure she should
it was a mistake
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mayner fuq rihanna dutty ass chris i forve yewh... shyt i HATE RIHANNA I HATE HER
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I love you Chris Brown. Rhianna should have thought about the consequences before laying a hand on a man. You and your career will be just fine. We all love you Chris and can't wait to see you back on stage.
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